By: Empress Sudol

In reply to Matt Wallaert.

Three things:

1. It’s not for you to decide if you’re an ally or not. It’s up to the people you are claiming to be an ally to.

2. Giving money to a cause is not the same thing as being a good ally.

3. If your likelihood to help rape prevention depends on how women react to your version of helping, then that says a lot more about you and it does about anyone else.