By: Lisa

I had a similar reaction to having a child and getting through potty training, though I'm not the birth mother. I admitted to my self one day, "This was excellent. Let's not do this again." And yes, it is inhumane to insist that women go through pregnancy if they have no desire to do so. It's an incredible experience to witness, all those sudden changes in mood and body, but I wouldn't wish it on anyone who wasn't in it for the long haul.