By: tardigrade

Wait, what? PASS on making time for an intimate loved one when they’re going through a once-in-a-lifetime surgery? You are not a burden! Your people love you and are excited to support you. If this article doesn’t resonate with you, it’s okay. This is clearly one specific person’s experience.

If you’re looking for a detailed, compassionate, informative, and thoughtful guide to top surgery for caregivers, I recommend “Like a barrier lifted:the top surgery caregivers support zine” by Quinn Rivenburgh. https://drive.google.com/file/d/1gAaEo1c1u0XitzjxCiqVtdfPp8vC7NvA/view